Wednesday, November 14, 2012

MR GOOD SAMARITAN RAPES WOMAN

These pictures show the chilling moment a sexual predator posed as a ‘Good Samaritan’ to help a drunken woman before taking her home and raping her. 

Ebrima Dampha, 33, was caught on CCTV as he pounced on his vulnerable victim when she passed out in a bar at four times the drink drive limit. 

The woman, who is in her thirties, was barely able to walk or talk as Dampha, a chef from Havant in Hampshire, dragged her outside to a taxi, intent on raping her.

He rifled through her handbag to find her address in the car and even acted as her saviour on their journey back to her house, a court heard. 

But when they arrived he took money from her purse to pay the fare, waved the cab away and led her upstairs to attack her in her own house. 

There, he raped her as she lay unconscious and ‘completely helpless’. 

The victim – who cannot be named for legal reasons – had gone out for a meal with a friend ‘for a good old catch up.’ 

They went on to the Roast Bar in Portsmouth, Hampshire, where she was targeted by Dampha, a father-of-three with a history of domestic violence. 

When she woke up the morning after the assault, Dampha had gone and she realised she had been raped.

However, she had no recollection of where she had been. 

A small red ‘R’ stamped on her hand told police she had visited the Roast Bar and they were able to retrieve CCTV recordings from the venue. 

It showed Dampha leading his victim outside and into a taxi at 2.45am. 

He was arrested and admitted having sex with the woman but insisted it was consensual. 

The woman, from Portsmouth, said: ‘I have been through hell because I still don’t exactly know what happened. I’ve got no recollection. 

‘My friend and I hadn’t planned to stay out that late and were having a good old catch up. 

‘What happened that night is always going to be with me and I don’t know how to move on. 

‘But I do have an overwhelming sense of relief that people did believe what had happened. 

‘If you go out and you’re a bit drunk it doesn’t give someone the right to take advantage of you. 

‘Some people say if you’re drunk you’re asking for it but you’re not.’ 

Before the trial, the victim would wake up every night – at the same time she was attacked. 

She gave her evidence from behind a screen, at times breaking down in tears. To this day, she has not come face-to-face with her attacker again. 

She said: ‘Seeing him again would be too traumatic. I went to court just to stop this from happening to someone else. 
’If I hadn’t reported it and later found out he had done it to someone else I don’t know how I would have felt.’ 

She added: ‘I don’t go out like I used to. I just go to friends’ houses now. 

‘I don’t think I will ever go to that area of town again because seeing the Roast Bar would freak me out. 

‘It comes down to being sensible about what you’re drinking, although sometimes you don’t feel it and it hits you at once. 

‘If you’re out with friends and one suddenly appears quite drunk, look after them and make sure they get home safely. Look after each other.’ 

This case highlights the dangers of drinking alcohol to excess and his sentence sends a clear message to anyone who preys upon vulnerable and defenceless victims. 

Source: Dailymail.co.uk

Thursday, November 8, 2012

I'M PREGNANT FOR MY PASTOR

 I am based in the United Kingdom and a member of the Redeemed Christian Church of God here in the UK. I am a 24-year-old Nigerian girl. I have lived in the UK for over five years, running into my 6th year already. However, as it is generally held, “life is not always smooth and straight” I understand that life, most of the time is full of ‘zig and zag’ just like it’s characterized with ups and downs. My story is not different after all. I have had my good times too, and I consider this time as my most trying moment. 

I am writing this note, not exactly because I regret my action of taking full control of a married Pastor, but because I have sensed something that is really not going to work for me in the most positive way, if I keep this pregnancy. I don’t regret my action because I understand that pastors too are human beings, and have the same feelings like the rest of us. He slept with me, got me impregnated; so what? 

However, a little of the background will give you an insight into how it all started. I understand that as human beings, we cannot cheat nature. I’m one of the Choristers in the church, and there is this magnet that pulls the pastor and I together. It is like a magnetic force. However, he had explained to me in the most pathetic way one day on how the wife had starved him of sex for months all in the name of spirituality. He only said that passively anyway. He also complained bitterly, while I listened with superlative attention on how the wife hardly ever satisfy him on bed. I actually wanted to satisfy him, as I’m such an emotional and considerate person. I am very sure God won’t judge me negatively because of my kind gesture. I only tried to satisfy a man who was dying of hunger, he was been starved of sex and I had to leave spirituality behind to get him satisfied. 

I remember how it all started, and like a Hollywood movie, the scenes reeled from one to the other and we had our fun in different hotels after every church meeting. I must always wait for the Pastor who will convey me to my house. After all, he is a pastor, and no one would suspect that any ‘dirty’ romance was going on between us. He confessed that I had made him feel like a woman, and I was just proud of myself. I will always node in exhilaration knowing very well that if I can satisfy another man, then I can satisfy my man. This is something every young lady should be proud of. I am not trying to patronize my action, but only being reasonable about some sensitive sexual matters. 

Yes, we did, and since then, I have been excommunicated from the church. In fact, the whole thing remained secret until he got me impregnated, and I confronted him for an abortion. To my consternation, he refuted my suggestion; he wanted me to keep the baby. I had moved against it. I had given him reasons why I shouldn’t keep the baby. I don’t want to jeopardize my dream of getting married at the age of 26 which is just less than a year. I told him that I must get rid of the baby. But he has vowed to sue me if I do. He is happy that at least what he had waited for endlessly since he got married in 2000 has come to fruition as God has finally opened the doors through me. Yes, he never had a child since he got married, and age is really not on his side. I can’t get his words off my head; “ I want this baby like yesterday” he said. 

This disagreement has put me in the public glare today as my close friends whom I divulged the situation to, had reported the matter to the church committee, and I have since been excommunicated. Everybody talks about me as if I have done something so strange. My concern really is not about what people are saying but to get a little piece of your advice on whether I should keep the baby against my wish, or go for an abortion. I know what I want but I still need your advice in order to justify the action I’m about to take. In the next five days, I should be able to take a major decision. Thank you for publishing my story.


Wednesday, November 7, 2012

IT'S HERE!!!!! HURRAYYYYYY


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